Can pregnant women stay irrational during the whole pregnancy?
Author: Well LONG story short….my girlfriend well ex cuz i made her mad and she left me….is about 15 weeks pregnant now and she cant stand me. We were a serious couple with talks of even getting married. Before the pregnancy she was the type to get mad and get irrational but be able to calm herself down in about 10 minutes. It seems like now she gets set off and she cannot bring herself back down. She is convinced that i dont love her, care about her and only think i want to be with her because shes pregnant. I havent spoken to her in about a week and a half now and its starting to break me down a little bit. People have said that she will start to calm down in the 2nd trimester but so far it seems nothing is changing. So my question is is it possible that this could go on during the entire pregnancy? Or am i really losing the love of my life : (
She’s scared, that’s why she’s behaving like this.
She’s carrying a child and with that brings huge responsibility. She also thinks you don’t love her and that’s going to make her even more unsettled at this very delicate time. She thinks she’s on her own and unloved with a baby on the way - I’m not saying that she’s right, I’m just saying that’s how she feels.
I don’t know what caused the split… was it that you were a reluctant father at first? We all have our doubts and that’s perfectly natural. But what she needs is for you to reassure her that it’s all going to be ok.
All you can do is be patient with her; keep reassuring her how much you DO love her, how excited you are to be a dad and raise this family together. Don’t get impatient with her… just keep letting her know you love her and want to be with her, not out of duty to the baby, but because you love her!
Good luck xx